sixteen

 16...just like that. To say 15 wasn't easy would be an understatement. The last year has been filled with lots of challenges and things didn't go at all like the way you wanted them to.  A part of me  wishes so much that I could have protected and saved you from the heartache you felt, but the larger part of me is just so incredibly proud of the way you handled yourself, the maturity you showed and the drive you had to pick yourself back up and continue on.  Life hasn't slowed down much you are still busy with wrestling, golf, and baseball and now I'm sure we'll see even less of you after you get your license today. I love that you spend some of your free time helping out the youth wrestlers in the area, passing on your love of the sport. Watching your relationship with your sister change this last year has brought me immense joy. You two still fight like crazy, but the love and respect you have for each other shines through even in the midst of the bickering. I know without a doubt you will always have each others backs and there isn't much else a mom could ask for.  You are one of the kindest and strongest people I know. You don't always show what a big heart you have, but when you do, the people around you know that you will always have their back. Dad and I are truly so very proud of you. You don't always get it all right, but you are quick to apologize when you get it wrong and you work to be better and do better. My wish for you this next trip around the sun is that you laugh and smile more, worry less, and enjoy the ride. Keep working hard and just being you...you are exactly who this world (and our family) needs.  Drive safely, your mom will never stop worrying about you (or checking your location).

Happy 16th Buddy, we love you more than words can say.

Love always,

Mom